Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Building Rapport with Others

For those of you who have been in the AmSpirit Business Connections organization for a few years or more, think back to how long it may have taken you to 'get comfortable' with the other members of your chapter. How long did it take before you started getting referrals?

From my own experience, I remember that it took nearly a year before I received my first really good referral. Obviously, everyone will have different experiences because of their business category too. There is much more risk at stake in doing business with a financial planner as opposed to buying flowers on Valentine's day from the florist in the group.

Here is my point. Invest time as much as possible to meet one-on-one with members of your chapter when you first join. Continue going to outside events as much as you can (chapter socials and/or business showcases). You will get to know others so much faster and learn so much more about helping one another when you interact as individuals. If you only see other members of your chapter each week for the 1 hour and 15 minute meeting, then you aren't building much rapport.

Here's another thought to ponder. If it takes several months of interacting continuously with your own chapter to build a solid business rapport with others, how much time do you think it might take to get to know members from other chapters? I see members visit the area wide luncheons once or twice, then they disappear. They think if there isn't an immediate payoff, it's not worth their time.

To get to 'know, like, and trust' with those in other chapters it may take more than a year for it to happen. In some cases, I've had referrals come from people I've known for 4-5 years or more. But for whatever reason, we were not referring to each other previously. But once the floodgates are finally open the referrals flow.

In a nutshell, networking takes patience, persistence, and consistency. If you consistently seek to help others and do so on a consistent basis, you will be rewarded.

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