While on vacation this week, I realized that my wife, Cheryl, is a natural born networker. She doesn't even know it, but she is. For whatever reason, people are drawn to her. It's because she always smiles at others when she makes eye contact.
Last night we visited the laundromat so we wouldn't be packing a suitcase full of dirty laundry for the trip home on Saturday. Cheryl asked me to go next door to get some change at the restaurant for the machines. Five minutes later I returned and Cheryl introduced me to the family next to us doing laundry. They were from Cincinnati and have lived here for five years and have three kids. She made a connection in the few minutes I was gone!
Cheryl gave a gold token to the smallest little girl that came out of the change machine. The little girl told her she was a nice lady and hugged her. A small act of kindness to a stranger meant a lot.
What can we do to 'connect' more effectively with those around us? Do we remember to smile at those we do not know? Or do we remain expressionless, appearing aloof? What random act of kindness could be in your future to help you connect with another or network more effectively?
Once we practice smiling and being kind to others, it will become second nature to us. Unfortunately, we can't all be naturals like Cheryl.
Last night we visited the laundromat so we wouldn't be packing a suitcase full of dirty laundry for the trip home on Saturday. Cheryl asked me to go next door to get some change at the restaurant for the machines. Five minutes later I returned and Cheryl introduced me to the family next to us doing laundry. They were from Cincinnati and have lived here for five years and have three kids. She made a connection in the few minutes I was gone!
Cheryl gave a gold token to the smallest little girl that came out of the change machine. The little girl told her she was a nice lady and hugged her. A small act of kindness to a stranger meant a lot.
What can we do to 'connect' more effectively with those around us? Do we remember to smile at those we do not know? Or do we remain expressionless, appearing aloof? What random act of kindness could be in your future to help you connect with another or network more effectively?
Once we practice smiling and being kind to others, it will become second nature to us. Unfortunately, we can't all be naturals like Cheryl.
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